The Hypocrisy of the Unheard Boss: When Tables Turn on the Non-Listener

Oh, the classic tale of a boss recycling your idea with their own name attached to it! It’s one of those workplace frustrations that’s far too familiar, especially in software development, where innovative solutions are both valuable and all too often “borrowed.”

The Not-So-Original Idea
So, fast forward a day or two, and there’s your boss, rolling out your idea as if they had the “eureka” moment themselves. And the worst part? They’re genuinely acting like it was all their brainchild. As a developer, this scenario is both all-too-familiar and infuriating.

I can’t count the number of times I’ve dealt with this “idea echo” over my career. You put thought and care into a solution, get shot down, and then, lo and behold, it re-emerges days or weeks later with your boss’s name stamped on it. It’s demoralizing and it chips away at your motivation. Why bother sharing insights when the only reward is watching someone else bask in the glow?

This Week’s Replay
Take this week, for instance. We had a task to brainstorm a simple microservice API that could pull from a database. I suggested a caching solution with a timeout to reduce database load—straightforward and effective. But my boss quickly shut it down, claiming it was “not that simple.”

Today, in a meeting about other ideas, guess what came back into the discussion? My boss pitches my exact suggestion, the one they discarded, as if it were a revelation. You can imagine my shock—and the anger brewing up inside me. It’s not just frustrating; it’s infuriating when your ideas are ignored until it suits someone else to use them.

Enter the Boss’s Boss
Now, in walks the boss’s boss. The one who truly calls the shots—the big, big boss man. If there was any shred of irony in this whole saga, it was seeing my boss now face the same treatment. This top boss doesn’t waste time with feedback or considerations—he just shuts down ideas without a second glance, and that includes my boss’s “recycled idea.” The once all-powerful non-listener suddenly finds himself on the receiving end, realizing what it feels like to be dismissed and overruled.

Watching my boss deal with this newfound frustration, it’s almost…poetic. The frustration he’s feeling? That’s a familiar sting—a developer’s constant companion when they’re undervalued, dismissed, and ignored.

The Bottom Line

Oh, the classic tale of a boss recycling your idea with their own name attached to it! It’s one of those workplace frustrations that’s far too familiar, especially in software development, where innovative solutions are both valuable and all too often “borrowed.”